I am writing referring to „a case study”, a situation, real or not, a hypothesis let’s say, almost like something imaginary, illusionary maybe since it is not in the present moment, but you get the drift : ) so let’s inhale and exhale…
So this woman, in the video bellow – check it maybe for more details, claims she had been sick and „her man” supported her. This is a human kind behaviour. A choice he made but also, the woman says found out that there are other women in this men’s life besides her. I suppose they are not his mother and sister or maybe they are? She implied something else, or all least this is how I chose to understand it.
My opinion at the moment is that sometimes monogamy is draining people of energy and it is a scarcity mindset.
In my opinion people who have been wounded and haven’t healed, haven’t done the inner cleansing, forgiving ourselves and others, can energetically, mentally, emotionally kill themselves and others, restrain their interests, hobbies or passions. We have to step away from these „traditional” patterns into self awareness, presence and consciousness into our aware authenticity and response ability.
She met that man when she already knew there might be challenges with her health. But, in my opinion there are situations where the man drains the womans’ energy through having multiple other sexual relationships and not owning it…
The good aspect is that he has enthusiasm, energy flow, things are moving, there is love and joy and we sense that about people and it showers upon us as well.
Nowadays Germanic Medicine, scientists like Bruce Lipton, Dr David R Hawkins, Deepack Chopra, others like Lise Bourbeau, Louise Hay, Wayne Dyer, Echkart Tolle, psychotherapists, ancient teachings like Tao, Ayurveda, nowadays coaches explain the unity of mind-body-energy.
How our patterns of thinking, feeling, behaving since before birth even, shape our inner world, our perceptions, relationships, experiences and the physical body. Women can sense the disconnection from the partner, the lack of communication and sometimes don’t know how to address it.
We haven’t been taught to connect so deep and still keep our composure, compassion and balance without being triggered into shame, lack of self worth, comparison, lack mentality.
Most of the latter ones are programs that have been unconsciously installed and we do have the choice of uninstalling it. Monogamy is not for everyone, neither celibacy nor poltamory nor gender nor race, status nor kilo standards.
These are just programs and we are free to choose to feel better, feel worthy and choose consciously what is best for ourselves.
And by the way, the fact that he stayed shows first of all a level of integrity and humanity. And we are all called to step up to honor ourselves and others for the sake of energy balance on the planet for we are all connected and this is why is so important to feel, think, live, speak and act in balance with our own true nature which above all is love, clarity, consciousness. This is my opinion at the moment. And ups, another ambulance is on the way. It usually happens when I get to intense. My dog kept pulling me away but stubbornly I continued… I feel there are many layers to the so called reality, and we are triggered to step up for ourselves, there is invisible influence, a certain energetical „fight” to keep things the same way and sometimes it is the safe way, other times it just causes suppression, and then it has to manifest somehow through personal, national or international conflicts, earthquakes, attacks, hurricanes, tsunamies, fire, water, etc. So the question is what do we choose to cultivate? What feelings, emotions, thoughts, words, gestures, activities we choose to cultivate knowing that our lives on the planet depend on our breath and all of the above? Can we choose a bit wiser? Can we start today, I mean, simply right now to choose to breath, to choose to feel a bit better, a bit safer thought? More gratitude for the support of the Earth for us, the love of the sky, the wind, the water, the vegetations, the animals, the people, places, experiences? It all starts like this, it all starts now.